Effective Communication for Non-monogamy (and all relationships)
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Why is communication important? Communication within our relationships is important for any form of relationship - sexual, non-sexual,...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Aug 31, 20213 min read
What does Consent mean?
Consent is a practice, not a transaction. We all could benefit from deepening our understanding of consent because negotiations of power...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Aug 24, 20212 min read
What is Non-Monogamy?
In our last post we discussed monogamy, so this week we’re covering (some) alternatives to monogamous relationships! It’s important to...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Jul 27, 20214 min read
Back to the basics: Sex
To begin, this week we’re talking about sex.
Queer Sex Ed CC
Jul 6, 20214 min read
Trauma and the Mind-body Connection
This week QSECC is teaming up with sex and relationships therapist Coty Nolin MFT (she/her) to talk about trauma and the Mind-Body...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Jun 24, 20213 min read
Harm Reduction, what's that? And what's it got to do with Sex Education?
In this week’s zine, we take a deeper dive into harm reduction, we will look at what harm reduction is, and what harm reduction has to do...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Jun 7, 20216 min read
Yes, No, Maybe: A Sexual Inventory Stocklist
(Note: This zine and blogpost is a collaborative work between us at Scarleteen. The information and some of the text from this article...
Queer Sex Ed CC
May 5, 20218 min read
The Complexities of Coming Out
When I was in my early teens, I thought coming out was going to be my formative queer experience. I remember every queer character’s...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Jan 29, 20214 min read
Working Through Jealousy
Jealousy, a feeling most of us have experienced yet we have so few skills to manage and discuss it. I cannot count the number of times...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Jan 22, 20214 min read
The Psychology of Jealousy
Experiencing jealousy may be one of the most universal sensations across different relationship structures. Monogamous and non-monogamous...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Jan 19, 20214 min read
Relationship Red Flags: Non-Monogamy
I put myself in a particular challenge with our mini curriculum this week. After four wonderful full zines in our “Non-exhaustive guide...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Jan 15, 20214 min read
What is the "Queer Sex Ed Community Curriculum?"
We are hesitant but excited to say that the Queer Sex Ed Community Curriculum is undoubtedly growing, and fast! In the 3 months that this...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Jan 8, 20215 min read
Communication, what is it and how do I do it?
When I was 17, I wanted to express to my first long-term partner that I felt like I wanted to be with other people when I went to...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Dec 19, 20204 min read
Non-Monogamy Primer!
Part two of our multi-part "Non-Exhaustive Guide to Relationship Structures" with a Zine on familiarizing ourselves with ethical...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Dec 18, 20205 min read
A Compulsory Monogamy Call-Out
I'm so excited to kick off the beginning of our "Non-Exhaustive Guide to Relationship Structures" series with this zine about Compulsory...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Dec 4, 20203 min read
Trauma, trauma response, and trauma-informed care
Based on the workshop “Exploring Trauma Reactions, Allyship & Anti-Oppression Principles” by Ayana Wallace *Content warning: Descriptions...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Nov 18, 20205 min read
Toxicity & Abuse
Content warning: descriptions of domestic and relational abuse and sexual assault. I ended up writing about toxicity and abuse this week...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Nov 12, 20203 min read
Boundaries 101
Much like consent, boundaries are an essential personal and relational tool that we are rarely taught about in the scope of sex and...
Queer Sex Ed CC
Oct 29, 20204 min read
Consent is sexy.
Hey to the queer sex ed community! I’m going to give a *content warning* at the beginning of this post because we’re talking about...
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